What matters most to you in your life?

In my case, there are only two things that truly matter to me in my life:

1) Giving it my all in anything and everything I do, regardless if I win or lose.

2) Getting the girl and keeping her. (In this case, I have learned to live primarily for myself, and, be happy and confident in my own skin before making the first move. When you live to make your own person happy and confident, you will attract a like-minded other. ;))