How To Mentally Prepare To Race Online

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Over the last few years, largely inspired by the rising level of interest in esports and the lack of real world motorsport action during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, thousands of people took the plunge into the world of sim racing.

With the initial construction of their rigs and the installation of their chosen sim under their belts, they began to experience the thrill of driving a car on the edge from the comfort of their own home.

Many took the opportunity to drive a car they always dreamed of driving, while others saw it as a valuable opportunity to keep themselves fresh while they were unable to test their own cars in the real world.

What started off as a few laps by themselves on track to get up to speed turned into some offline races against the AI controlled cars. However, few seem to have made the jump into the online world of racing against human opponents, which is a massive shame.

But why is this? What hurdles would there be to prevent people from venturing online?

Well, there are in fact many reasons why this may be the case. These can include a lack of confidence in racing against other sim racers, being worried about ruining another drivers' race through an on-track incident, or simply not having a stable enough internet connection.

So, in order to break down some of these fears and help more sim racers to progress into the world of online multiplayer racing, let’s take a look at how you can prepare to take your skills online and enter your first race.

The Mental Game​

To start off, we are going to forget about the actual driving and take a look at what you can do mentally.

If you find the thought of entering an online race intimidating, you are not likely to ever find yourself on the grid.

The first thing to do, if you feel this way, is to figure out what it is that you find intimidating in the first place. This can be any number of things, but here are a few examples:
  • I may be embarrassingly slow
  • Someone might get angry if I crash into them
  • I will be upset if I don’t win
  • I don’t know what to do to sign up and race
If some of these examples sound familiar to you, then don’t worry, you are not the only one to ever feel this way. There are many who have felt this before. In fact, some of those racing online may still feel this way when they enter a race!

So, what can you do to overcome these fears? Let’s go through these examples above.

What if I am really slow?​

Are you worried that you are going to be outrageously slow compared to everyone else, or that you are going to end up being lapped by most of the field?

Although this may not actually be the case, this is a completely natural feeling to have, so don’t worry. However, the truth is, it really doesn’t matter.

Every single person who races online has a different level of ability. Yes, there are some very quick drivers out there, but there are plenty more who are much slower. It is what makes the racing more interesting.

You also have to remember that there is a wide range of experience on every single grid. Some drivers have been sim racing for years, while others have only just started out.

Nobody is expecting a brand new driver to be leading the field into turn 1 or cruising to the victory by over half a minute. It is the same reason they don’t ask you to perform heel-and-toe downshifting flawlessly as part of your road driving test, it just isn’t expected!

You have to be prepared to accept that, no matter your level of experience, there is always going to be someone out there who is quicker than you. This is even the case at the very top levels of competitive Esports.

It is a fact of life that everyone is going to have a different level of skill to everyone else. If we were all blisteringly fast with not even a sniff of a mistake, then the racing would be extremely boring with no overtaking or action. It is the variety of abilities in a field of drivers that makes racing so exciting.

What if I crash and make someone angry?​

If this sounds familiar, the first thing to do is to accept that accidents happen in motor racing. That is just part of the sport. Indeed, some say that if you don’t crash then you aren’t trying hard enough or that you will never learn anything.

In order to attempt to avoid this situation arising in the first place, the best thing to do is to turn some laps in the particular car and track combo of the race you want to enter.

This will help you to avoid missed braking points or overambitious corner speeds in an online lobby, which can lead to some rather unpleasant situations.

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With the car and track combination fresh in your mind, you will be better prepared to join those other sim racers online.

At this point it is worth mentioning that despite your best efforts and many hours of practice, accidents can and will still happen.

If you do, unfortunately, end up in an altercation with another driver, try to stay calm. Don’t get caught up in heated conversations or any form of retaliation. This will only serve to make your online experience worse and cause you to stay away in the future.

I only want to win​

Let’s be honest, those who love racing are also rather competitive. In most cases, these individuals are there to win. But the reality is, you simply cannot win them all. That is one of the main reasons we keep coming back for more!

The thrill of racing against multiple opponents and coming out victorious is highly contagious. However, this doesn’t mean that you have to be on the top step of the podium to feel like a winner. More often than not, you will end up having a good, close race with at least one other driver. You may even swap places throughout the duration of the race.

When you eventually reach the finish line, regardless of whether you beat them there or not, that feeling of closely matched competition is equally as satisfying as taking a race victory. So, rather than focussing solely on the overall race win, take the time to enjoy the pleasure of having a great race, no matter where in the field you are.

I don’t know how to sign up for a race​

In the early stages of your online career, it can be incredibly confusing to find a place to race, let alone how to enter.

Luckily, there are some very simple ways that you can join a like minded group of sim racers online right here on RaceDepartment!

The first thing to do, once you are a premium member, is jump into the Racing Club forums and find the dedicated area for your chosen sim. From there, you will see a Racing Club section where social and friendly races are organised for:
Simply choose which of the races you would like to join and click on the thread. Once you have read the information about the event, all you need to do is reply with the requested information and you are all signed up

Alternatively, you can sign up to race on the Simracing.GP platform. Here you can select a community that you would like to join and see all the races that you can enter, all in just a few mouse clicks.

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So there you have it. That’s how you can prepare yourself mentally to join the sim racing community online and begin your journey towards an enjoyable racing experience.

The main thing to remember is to not take it too seriously to begin with and just focus on having fun with a group of like minded individuals. Though you may get nervous when you go to the grid for the first time, I can assure you that once that race starts, there will be no looking back.
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Phil Rose
A passionate sim racer with over 20 years of virtual and real world motorsport experience, I am the owner and lead content creator at Sim Racing Bible as well as a writer here at RaceDepartment. I love all forms of motorsport, especially historic motorsport, but when it comes to sim racing, I will drive anything!

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My experience reading the events in the Racing Club, is that five races on, these things are gone.

People seems to be loosen up a lot.
Knowing they are among friends.
Takeing care of you, as a rookie and
actually helping you to get through with it. This is what RD Online racing is about.
Practice servers are opened up fast.
Get your prep. Ask questions..
Get your ticket.. Have fun.
 
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I have social anxiety (I'm relaxed, witty and fun when I'm with friends and acquaintances. It's just specific situations, like mingling with strangers) and multiplayer is very intimidating for me. Every once in a while, I'll try and gather the courage to join a race but then it would be hard enough to click Multiplayer and decide to play with other people. Instead, I have to look up the schedule for races in Raceroom or raceu in AC or I have to go into forums separate from the game, be it here or simracing.gp and commit to "signing up" for a race, say, at Wednesday at 3 o'clock... and suddenly it feels like it's such a huge deal, I chicken out.

I mean, I get it. If the number of players isn't enormous, it's hard to make any sort of instant match-making work. Scheduling is a necessary evil. But it's one thing to potentially ruin someone's round in a game where you can click and more or less instantly play a 20 minute round, like a popular shooter, for example. It's a whole other story to sign up for what feels like an "event".

So that's when I nope out and drive alone with AI again.
 
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Thank you, for being serious... Or the irony level is way up where it belongs. Anyways... :thumbsup:
 
I have social anxiety (I'm relaxed, witty and fun when I'm with friends and acquaintances. It's just specific situations, like mingling with strangers) and multiplayer is very intimidating for me. Every once in a while, I'll try and gather the courage to join a race but then it would be hard enough to click Multiplayer and decide to play with other people. Instead, I have to look up the schedule for races in Raceroom or raceu in AC or I have to go into forums separate from the game, be it here or simracing.gp and commit to "signing up" for a race, say, at Wednesday at 3 o'clock... and suddenly it feels like it's such a huge deal, I chicken out.

I mean, I get it. If the number of players isn't enormous, it's hard to make any sort of instant match-making work. Scheduling is a necessary evil. But it's one thing to potentially ruin someone's round in a game where you can click and more or less instantly play a 20 minute round, like a popular shooter, for example. It's a whole other story to sign up for what feels like an "event".

So that's when I nope out and drive alone with AI again.
Thank you for sharing this with us. I can fully appreciate how you feel. It can be crippling for people who suffer with social anxiety. Hopefully this helped in some way.
 
Lol "Someone might get angry if I crash into them"
Reading the abuse post T1 is hilarious. I have to turn off chat in ACC during the race as it's too distracting, yet very funny.

I can now say **** in about 10 languages, so it's actually educational.

Entertaining read in the interlude between race end and the start of Quali.
 
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Different people have different ways to calm down. I like to practice for any events I'm going to do. In races I like to push the car hard so I need to learn how to catch slides and have confidence knowing that if I overdrive the car I don't end up in total unknown. I don't practice at 100% and then do the race at 80%. I see no point in that at all.

For me preparation is what makes also it more fun. You learn things and the lap time improves. Doing more laps makes me more consistent. Couple of hours is more than enough tho. After that I either really enjoy driving the car track combo or just want to spend some time improving some weakness on my driving.

In addition to just lap time I also practice some alternative racing lines. Like just 1 or 2 laps. Take an outside line through some corner, see how the braking is when doing an overtake into some difficult corner, pit entry and exit if needed and some start practice. It literally takes 5 minutes and it helps a lot. Reading the rules if it is a league race is a good idea. You want to know how things work. Also check basic things like fuel amounts and start type for example.

That being said if it is your first ever online race then don't worry about it too much. If you get into accident you can use it as an excuse and people will be more tolerant and might even help you.
 
If you really consider to "prepare" for a leisure time activity, better stop immediately, because you're taking the game far to serious.
If you really don't consider to prepare for sim-racing you did not understand the difference between sim-racing and Mario Kart.
Yes, sim-racing against real people requires both technical and psychological preparedness. On sims where there is a rating system people tend to be quite upset if your attitude is the "Mario Kart" one. Misunderstandings can happen but sim racing is an intense and rather difficult activity, so ruining other people's race just because "it's leisure" is not really a good idea. If on the other hand you are scared stiff of online racing then preparedness is the only solution. Make sure you know the track well so that while driving you are focused on the cars around and not on where to brake. Otherwise keep your line, be predictable. If you realize you're too slow then you have a choice: put in more effort to learn the track and the car, or quit. I have seen people being disappointed because they bought a good wheel and pedals and they thought that would suffice. It doesn't.
 
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for me it's quite simple ,
online racing takes a little more time , but it's more rewarding for sure !

I'm somewhat average, which is annoying because I want to be winning , but as I said above, winning MP race would actually mean quite a lot , compared to wining over AI
I also don't have that much free time on regular basis - to be able to commit to a more organized league racing ( that would be miles better than public lobbies )

out of all the MP I tried ,I think that only 2 really "worked" for me

first one is Gran Turismo, where the system is somewhat automated for you where you should end up in a field of similarly paced drivers. You are then also rewarded by your safety and skill rating, based on how you do, giving you further motivation
my main issue though is that my PSN account is EU, while I live in Canada. Sadly Sony still haven't figure out a way to allow me ( at least I havent' seen it ) to drive on US/CA severs, so if I do get into a race, there is quite a bit of waiting becasue my time when I can race is a early morning in EU, where not many people are online
and my lag sucks !!

so the other option, which is remarkably simlar is iRacing.
here I don't have the issues of time zone /location, but the huge downside is the cost! ( subscription + cars + tracks )

so I feel like this is the main reason why I never really got more seriously into MP and I don't think I ever will . For that to happen , iRacing would have to comeup with no-subscription model , where I would buy "credits" and use them to pay for racing sessions , so that if I don't race for a year, I don't lose anything ( it would also be nice to try before you buy, for the cars, not sure if that's even considered to be done at some point)
 
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I understand that this article is mainly geared towards league races, and the like. However, I'd like to point out that no amount of preparation will suffice for an honest racer in public Assetto Corsa servers. The depravity is consistent and mind-boggling.
 
If you really consider to "prepare" for a leisure time activity, better stop immediately, because you're taking the game far to serious.
I love racing and I've done it in many forms over the years as a leisure activity
But regardless of the form unless you're just racing AI there's some level of prep needed I think, even if that's just practicing the combo you're going to race to make sure you're comfortable with them.
 
Simracing is not a real race ...
You will get into some difficulties trying to define "real race" here.
At least if you are trying to be serious.
Saying this then about one year back I watched an E-Sport race on the rF2 platform.
And the video sequence shifted between the rF2 screen (race) and the live real(!) participation between Jason Button and the older Magnussen (Jan).
Both were driving beautifully using their FFB wheels and race frames.
And they were giving each other a lot more space than casual racing gamers does mandatory.
Afterwards they were greeting each others exactly at they would have done in socalled RL.;)

CatsAreTheWorstDogs: Listening to and watching their live comments and reactions it was quite obvious they were participating in some kind of "real" race.
Hehe at least it was a fully "real" event - just like a RL F1 event is "real".:cool:
 
iRacing would have to comeup with no-subscription model , where I would buy "credits" and use them to pay for racing sessions , so that if I don't race for a year, I don't lose anything ( it would also be nice to try before you buy, for the cars, not sure if that's even considered to be done at some point)
I just saw this.
The first part that iRacing should abandon their subscription model will (ofcourse) never gonna happen. This model pay their wages (and profit :D).
But I dont know if you know that there is some kind of "payback" of a reasonable part of your monthly subscription fee.
If you does participate in enough of iRacings socalled official races.
At least when I was a member a lot of people talked about how much of their fee they got back from iRacing this way.

CatsAreTheWorstDogs: Check it out if you dont know - and/or is not only interested in trashing iRacing :whistling:
 
I mostly was AI racing or with mates, because in AU where the ground is thin for racers and the online ones are spread over so many games, fields are small, skills are high and racing is hard, for this reason iRenting is worthwhile for me, i know i can hop into a race and when the splits are done im going to race with a suited bunch of racers, not just have my ass handed to me by aliens the whole time, and im upslkilling without feeling defeated the whole time.
 
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A good article @Phil Rose , thank you:thumbsup:

There are people that want to give it their best shot at whatever they do, at any level, so preparing, practicing is always useful to get your head into gear.

For those that say 'it should be fun', I totally agree, though one man's fun is another man's step up a ladder whereby they want to achieve something more, however small it may seem to the more casual racers. 'Fun' for me was to measure my lap times, consistency, racecraft etc against others, and learn from that. I'm not quick, though I'd be massively slower if I hadn't raced with the guys here!

It's a good feeling, imho, overcoming your concerns (however small they be) to go from racing AI to the fantastic races here at RD (and other friendly online places) with those that clearly care about clean racing, and great camaraderie.
 
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