You do you and I'll do me. The ability to control when updates occur and which elements to install was one of the reasons I chose 10Pro. Only exception to the extended "wait and see" rule are critical security updates. System stability is far more important.Now for some actual 2021 advice. Always update Windows 10 to the latest version. It's OK to postpone an update for a week or maybe 2. But always update. If you have any reason not to update your Windows OS, then you probably have IT knowledge about specific Windows environments, for example for corporate use. If you don't have any reason or simply have no knowledge about the subject: just use auto updates.
Latest cumulative updates reportedly mess up the desktop interface
Microsoft is already working on a fix
Was only released on October 13
Microsoft's controversial update policy has its first victims.
The most recent update of Windows 10 appears to be causing serious issues for people's PCs. People have experienced stuttering frame rates, the Blue Screen of Death, and other issues following the update.