I already forward port like this in my router like this --Lazy bug, Make sure you have your ports open for the sim. I just dmz'd my host comp for now. I also tested it on the same pc. hosting/driving and I could connect using the same pc.
What is the best way to accomplish this if I don't have an ASUS router?You need Ports 9600 udp/tcp and Port 8075 udp/tcp and you also need to activate NAT Loopback in your Router to join your own server. When you use a ASUS RTN66U like me you must turn of the NAT Acceleration to activate NAT Loopback.
To be honest i not very happy about this because it only work if i use dial-up mode, meaning i cant use PPPoE mode if i want to play this game with my own server.Glad you was able to get connected lady bug. Lewis, you will see that error depending how on long you set the wait time to in the server...Say after the booking period has ended. If you set a wait time of one for practice, it will not let you join for one minute. I had that exact same issue till I figured it out.